Can we leave the mojo out of it?
Just for once? (althought that's a very clever observation.)
I think women are stronger in a lot of ways and can use their wiles to try and change men (which, I've found is nigh impossible). If he doesn't have it together the first time, you may as well pack it in and move on.
Many women stay and beat their heads against the wall.
Women EMOTE and try and get men to understand by appealing to their feminine side. Again, this could work to your advantage if he's responsive; but not if he's stubborn or selfish.
Women endure the pain of childbirth and are the basic care givers, while I find men at almost any age, still lost like little boys. So, if women of good character have anything going for them, it is persistence and determination.