Therapists working if the field of sexual abuse are able to distinguish between such things as exposing oneself and rape. And contrary to popular opinion those guilty of lesser offences can often be rehabilitated.

I am sure you can see there is a difference between an adult male fondling a boy and quitting when asked and a man raping a boy.

And that there might be a different reactions to a little girl being raped and a boy being briefly fondled.

It is all sexual abuse, a crime, and not condoned. However, there is a good deal more trauma not only to the victim but to others in some forms of abuse.

Why you would claim to not be able to recognize the difference is where I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

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