Well if you go back to my first post on this...
>>>This whole thing is another ginned-up pile of bullshit by the trial attorneys. You know it, I know it...
...then you know that I stated that this was a trivial case and probably would not stand up.
As for:
>>>"Urge." That sounds a bit more palatable than "force," but how would you "urge" them? I can just imagine"
I really don't have a problem with using the word or deed "force", if that is necessary.
In fact, my approach would be to kill them if they kill my kid. Would you call that "force"? Of course this will not happen for reasons I need not go into.
But statistically, they will kill many children and adults. OK by you, right?