What I have learned from your post
1. Bullying is OK. (If you tell people what bothers you and they use it as a weapon in personal attacks against you, as many of the remarks against Lindy have been, that's bullying.)
2. It's much better to make people guess what bothers you than to tell them outright. That way, no one will understand anything properly and it's always possible to shift the blame.
3. Honesty and tactlessness are the same.
4. Manners count less in this envoronment because no one is close enough to punch you in the face.
5. Manners will be less and less important as time goes on. Virtual people are not real people and have no feelings.
6. Saying something pseudoscientific is better than saying nothing at all.