Is her husband a relative of yours?

If her condition is what you say it is, why the urgency? I doubt that the husband can be held personally responsible for future medical expense.

What you say may be true and the parent's medical experts may have limited access to the patient and data. Is it also untrue that the parent's experts have been refused the right to examine her? Wouldn't the best way to come to agreement be to allow access?

How many court appointed doctors are we talking about? I read of one. Has she really been examined by dozens of neurologists?

I will admit that I am conflicted. How can you be so sure without the first hand, intimate knowledge available to all of the doctors and all of the family members?

I can only assume that you are basing your position on the judicial deliberations. I don't share your confidence in a judge wielding power over life and death in a case like this.

Due process is still under way and I trust that the right decision will be made eventually. Every effort should be made to bring all parties into agreement.