The evolution of this reincarnative ( I think I just made up a new word) process is as it needs to be. People must go through this to find their own *personal* balance...compassion I would suppose is an appropriate term that you use. I tend to detach more than that and offer understanding to the equation...nothing more, nothing less. It simply *IS*

While achieving balance is partially the male/female duality experience...this is to further understand BOTH/ALL perspectives of the human experience. To comprehend and embrace all perspectives, one must experience all perspectives. Thus, eliminating judgement. THAT is the neutrality that is required for evolution....or in otherwords...balance.

I adhere to the premise that balance is as different for each soul as fingerprints to the human. What I glean from your thoughts is that balance must be the end result encompassing a partnership between souls. While fundamentally I agree with this, I take it a step further. Partnership, yes in order to experience and enlighten ...The end result (the soul's evolution) being complete independence of interaction. Becoming complete within oneself...thus becoming part of the universe, indeed, but independent of the universe.