Nah..
...you're not promised any babes in these higher spectra. All things are merely evolutionary developments of what has come before. If you're close to female polarities here - you'll be close there. If you are more of a loner, this pattern too regenerates.
And if you blow folks up...you'll end up around other folks who like to blow things up...and none of those are in a higher spectra.
Incidentally, there are no "virgins" in higher spectra. To get to that level one has to have learned all about sharing, love, etc.
;-)