Jody, get off the fence
Be bold and stop worrying about offending anyone. You see anybody
else around here keeping their mouths shut 'cause it might go against
what someone else thinks? :^)
Say what you really think and feel, it is no more or less legitimate than
anyone else's here or elsewhere. And this place certainly needs a
female point of view more often (and no, Lindy, I am not ignoring or
dissing you here).
Not that female viewpoints are always right or better than a man's, but
having a different perspective is at the least refreshing.