re: Anything's OK as long as no one gets hurt.
At Oscar Wilde's trial for homosexuality, I believe it was Lady Astor who said,(when asked her opinion of such acts by the court) " I suppose it's all right as long as it doesn't frighten the horses."
However, since the act was with a royal Wilde was made to suffer the indignity not only of the trial, but incarceration.
All this goes to your point that "anything's OK as long as no one gets hurt." And, of course, the horses don't get frightened.
Publius
