Your metaphor is ass backwards....
First off, let me congratulate you in a bold attempt of propagandizing an issue. Connecting the right to dissent with misogynistic spousal abuse is such a lofty goal, if only you could pull it off. This is the kind of mindless partisan zeal which is poisionous democracy.
Not extreme enough though, why not just try to associate it with sodomizing an infant?
That's really how you feel, isn't it? Every time someone talks back to your chosen furher, it's a fucking crime aganst nature in your mind.
Which brings up back to the metaphor. It's more like the wife is being punished by her husband, who likes to settle things with violence, for talking back and pointing out that it may not be the best course of action for the family.
Get help Tom.