The point
I don't think this President is capable of understanding what he is not personally involved in.
I think he plays fast and loose with the families and assets of people not of his group, but that he looks out for his own in a very different way.
I think that he talks like someone who people would like to invite to their homes, but that he would behave like he didn't know a former host on the street if that person wasn't part of his crowd.
This President needs object lessons in the fact that people are not pathways for his political ambitions.