~But men are very uncomfortable talking about male homosexuality. Periphally they will speak of it, but nitty gritty is unnerving. Size matters to MEN. The bigger and more girth, the better. It is a sign of virility. I am in a position to be able to speak openly to gays about this, and they are very willing to answer my questions...unlike heterosexuals. It has been my experience in talking with gay men that the more comfortable one is with their homosexuality, the more open they are to talk about it with straights. EVERY gay I have interfaced with KNEW something was different about themselves starting at around first grade.
~Digression~Women may say that size matters...but it has been my experience ( Womans' Locker Room Confessions 101) they are not receiving great sex....so they think size might be the answer to better sex. A womans' vagina is packed with nerve endings in the first two inches of entry. Anything else is dead air space and absolutely no feeling. A woman needs to work at the process of love making for the partner to receive pleasure, too. That means contracting the muscles in the vagina. The more a woman contracts...the more feeling enhanced...the more the man enjoys and it is an upward spiral of pleasure for both.