re: No, the problem is not my not understanding commitment
I honestly don't understand you. Nobody would be shooting at me. Nobody would be attacking me. All I would need to do is stand by my wife. What would be stopping me?
I can tell you one thing, once you've decided that you're not "sure" if you can carry through on something, something that requires only will, not physical strength or endurance, or that you might not "feel" like it when the time comes, you're already on the way to losing.
