My brain hurts too
And I've got to go to work tomorrow, so I'm going to bed.
This little fire behind my eyes may go out by the time I get back to this thread, so if I answer no more of anyone's replies, it has nothing to do with snubbing, but only that the little voice is still, and so, having nothing further to say, I will say nothing.
I'm quite surprised that I spoke up about any of this at all.
Good night--
Mary Anne