Off Topic — HabitableZone

Off Topic » in reply to re: and to clarify the stalking incident.

Wow....
Lindy — (archived)

And THAT's a story.

Hmmm.....I would say she is wracked by guilt.
All those years, giving up a part of herself. Something was taken from her. She was a victim herself. She has obviously gone to great lengths to end her self torture.

Now I know WHY you feel like you do about abortion, but I will point out a bit of your hypocrisy. You went on and on about how abortion was so evil, so you should be happy your birth mother didn't abort YOU. I seem to remember you thought that you wouldn't be here here right now (if it hadn't been for her). So, why don't you give her at least the courtesy of closure?

You should look into another group of people who got to meet decades later with their birth mothers and fathers. I'm sure very few have happy endings. BUT, there are a lot of "closures" and life goes on.

You said she "verbally attacked" your wife. She doesn't know either of you. If she called and your wife was defensive, of course she'd be pissed.
This woman could be mean, or desperate.

I'm not telling you how to live your life. I think if you feel so "blessed" to be here because of her, that you should at least give her the chance to address some of these issues that are eating her up.
Anyone else agree, or disagree?

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