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You are right about girls. They are trying to dress way too sexy. My 6-year old likes to bare her shoulder. And she wants the sexy cloths (Why are they making sexy cloths for 6 year olds?).

As long as I am paying for her cloths, they will be conservative (And cute).

As for my son. I don’t have any problems with sex ed. talks. I want him to understand its okay to be attracted to a women’s body- that is natural. Its also natural to have sexual urges when looking at women.

Where I have a problem is when it comes to satisfying those urges. I don’t want him going down the road of pornography. I wouldn’t even have a problem with him looking at the tame stuff, except I fear it will lead to pornography. And it will teach him to look at women as strictly sex objects. I want him to know women are more than that.

When he gets married, I want him to not only see his wife as a sex object, but see her as a person.

So I don’t know what to tell him in that regard, at this point. Thankfully, I have about 4 years to figure it out.

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