Off Topic — HabitableZone

Off Topic » in reply to My dear TB, SDG, and REB,

Yeah, they're just little angels.
RobVG — (archived)

Christ, even Jimmy Carter had "lust in his heart". At least he admitted it.

To expect men not to have "roving" eyes is like expecting women not to consider income level first on the list priorities for finding a mate. (I'm not really that cynical.) Although the brain is the most important sex organ, male sexuality is based on visual stimuli more than anything else.
Why do you think men buy alot of porn and women...not so much.

All men look- and those that don't are lying. Most women I have know are from the "you can look but don't touch" camp. In your case, your boyfriends should have at least had the courtesy to be discrete.

I have been cheated on three times in my life. The first time, it was devastating. The second time, it wasn't so bad. The third time I kicked myself for not seeing it coming.

Each time you get a little bit harder (inside) and a little less idealistic. Along with other things, you start to realize the world isn't what you were led to believe it was. You have to adjust your expectations accordingly. Even though the world might not be what you thought it was, you get past it and learn to enjoy it for what it is- imperfect.

"hurts my feelings....I simply can not understand, because I am not this way" IMO you need a better understanding of men and yourself, and you also need to toughen up a little or you'll continue to be hurt.

You probably haven't liked what I've said, but sugarcoating it would negate the point of writing it.

2¢
Rob

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