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See, this is where communicating to your wife is important. I had a hard time with this at first. It took a few years of being married to understand this.

My wife knows I am very visual when it comes to sex. She knows I like to look at her body a sex object. That actually makes her happy and even if she is not in the mood, she is willing to help out. It is because I told her.

How are men’s wives going to know what their husbands want if their husbands don’t tell them? Instead of cheating on their wives, husbands need to talk to their wives about what they like. There will probably have to be some compromises but I bet most husbands would be surprised.

I think a lot of husbands have a hard time viewing their wives as sex objects after they become mothers. I realized my wife can be both a mother of my children and my sex partner. I think sometimes it is tough for women to see themselves for both roles- a mother by day and a wife at night.

Communication is the key. If you are not happy about your sex life, talk to her about it.

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