re: Whaddaya mean, "generic"?
I will admit this is a hotly contested topic, and has been the subject of many books over the ages. Your participation seemed generic, and not based on emotion.....there was no hint of experience there; however I understand your public persona and that you are still married.
I decided to be forthright with just a bit of personal info because it won't damage anyone and the damage it did to me has already been done. I don't trust men. Period.
There are some good ones out there, and I might be lucky enough to settle down with one.
I look carefully at the levels of communication and honesty and what they want from a relationship. As far as I'm concerned the games are over.