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Lindy — 5/9/2008 1:08:02 AM (archived)

That's a good point Alcaray, and it's often the very thing that breaks up otherwise "good marriages". That "crazy passion" drives us to do some pretty heavy shit.

I have never been the one to break a contract first, but I certainly know how to get out of one. But frankly, keep coming back to the same old thing.

Here, this is in todays news:

New York's Congressman Fossella admits fathering child from affair outside his marriage.
He got caught driving while very drunk, to see his other daughter. Obviously the man's lies were out of control:
>"My personal failings and imperfections have caused enormous pain to the people I love and I am truly sorry."

This must have been eating <him.>

The whole thread (144 posts)

A question about fidelity. - Jody - 5/7/2008 2:14:07 AM
- The Truth? You can't handle the truth! - ER - 5/12/2008 7:20:09 PM
  - NO MORE WIRE HANGERS!! - Jody - 5/13/2008 1:01:23 AM
- Why modern men avoid marriage - Lindy - 5/12/2008 1:27:04 AM
  - re: Why modern men avoid marriage - ER - 5/12/2008 12:43:07 PM
    - re: Why modern men avoid marriage - TB - 5/12/2008 6:01:44 PM
      - re: Why modern men avoid marriage - ER - 5/12/2008 6:18:44 PM
      - re: Why modern men avoid marriage - ER - 5/12/2008 6:18:35 PM
        
        Continued, - ER - 5/12/2008 6:24:12 PM
- re: A question about fidelity. - REB - 5/9/2008 1:42:59 PM
  - Another one who is married.~sigh~ (n/t) - Jody - 5/9/2008 1:47:47 PM
    - And that's why. - TB - 5/9/2008 5:15:15 PM
      - My dear TB, SDG, and REB, - Jody - 5/9/2008 7:03:18 PM
        
        Yeah, they're just little angels. - RobVG - 5/9/2008 11:45:58 PM
        
        Some of us try to be. - REB - 5/12/2008 3:46:44 PM
        
        Man, you really are a saint! (n/t) - RobVG - 5/13/2008 11:02:51 PM
        
        (Surprise, not sarcasm.) (n/t) - RobVG - 5/13/2008 11:48:09 PM
        
        re: (Surprise, not sarcasm.) - Lindy - 5/14/2008 12:31:23 AM
        
        Let me ask you this... - RobVG - 5/14/2008 4:53:34 AM
        
        re: Let me ask you this... - REB - 5/14/2008 2:14:14 PM
        
        Let me tell you this. - RobVG - 5/15/2008 12:57:11 AM
        
        ...and - REB - 5/14/2008 2:16:21 PM
        
        re: Let me ask you this... - Lindy - 5/14/2008 1:49:55 PM
        
        Yeah...just like you I am sure. - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:02:46 PM
        
        re: Yeah...just like you I am sure. - REB - 5/13/2008 4:52:01 PM
        
        Uhm, post above (saint) was supposed to go here. (n/t) - RobVG - 5/14/2008 5:53:33 AM
        
        I am your female counterpart REB (n/t) - Jody - 5/13/2008 5:05:42 PM
        
        Definitely...but we are the minority....and even made fun of at times... - Jody - 5/13/2008 6:12:36 PM
        
        So you understaznd where I am coming from? (n/t) - REB - 5/13/2008 5:39:50 PM
        
        pointers - FrankC - 5/11/2008 2:26:11 AM
        
        re: pointers - Lindy - 5/11/2008 3:43:14 AM
        
        eyes - FrankC - 5/11/2008 4:12:20 AM
        
        A manly AND honorable approach, Across a crowded room. - ER - 5/11/2008 2:23:41 PM
        
        Whoa...you have redeemed yourself my Eastern Elite Liberal:) (n/t) - Jody - 5/11/2008 3:28:14 PM
        
        Conservatives just flash Superbowl Tickets. - ER - 5/11/2008 4:22:12 PM
        
        Grown ups - Lindy - 5/11/2008 3:04:47 PM
        
        My absolute FAVORITE part of a man's body - Jody - 5/11/2008 3:44:31 PM
        
        re: My absolute FAVORITE part of a man's body - Lindy - 5/11/2008 6:19:38 PM
        
        Bowz has great gams....as I recall from his pictures. (n/t) - Jody - 5/11/2008 6:47:36 PM
        
        Say WHAT? - ER - 5/11/2008 4:26:40 PM
        
        re: eyes feasting?? - Lindy - 5/11/2008 6:03:41 AM
        
        Frank, not all of us go for girls with glass ones. (n/t) - TB - 5/11/2008 3:38:53 AM
        
        "Move aside, and let the man go through, let the man go through" (n/t) - RobVG - 5/11/2008 3:20:24 AM
        
        Omg...FrankC...Wow. - Jody - 5/11/2008 3:07:37 AM
        
        Serious razor sharp words - Lindy - 5/10/2008 6:41:07 PM
        
        Funny you should say that. - RobVG - 5/10/2008 5:39:06 PM
        
        I don't know if it is frustration or anger.. - Jody - 5/10/2008 10:20:23 PM
        
        "it never hurts to keep your guard up for a time when getting to know someone." - Lindy - 5/10/2008 7:01:05 PM
        
        Interesting.... - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:17:02 AM
        
        However... I AM learning... - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:47:51 AM
        
        dayum Jody you lookin buff - FrankC - 5/10/2008 2:50:28 AM
        
        :) (n/t) - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:04:07 PM
        
        What? I'm not sensitive enough? I'm devastated. (n/t) - ER - 5/9/2008 11:16:49 PM
        
        Oh I am sure you are. (n/t) - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:18:16 AM
        
        Oh ER...you are very sensitive... - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:09:30 PM
        
        Snide, snob, materialistic. - ER - 5/10/2008 5:38:56 PM
        
        Are what? Sensitive or devastated? (n/t) - ER - 5/10/2008 1:26:46 AM
        
        Oh I am fully aware you are sensitive.... - Jody - 5/10/2008 1:38:30 AM
- If it's hurtful to the wife... - Eri - 5/8/2008 3:38:45 AM
  - Venus and Mars - FrankC - 5/8/2008 6:28:05 PM
    - Actually...speaking for myself... - Jody - 5/8/2008 7:24:23 PM
      - Look at it this way... - ER - 5/8/2008 8:12:10 PM
        
        Along those lines... - RobVG - 5/9/2008 2:58:17 AM
        
        " It's the height of selfishness to reveal an affair. " - ER - 5/9/2008 3:37:01 AM
        
        re: " It's the height of selfishness to reveal an affair. " - Lindy - 5/9/2008 3:01:59 PM
        
        re: " It's the height of selfishness to reveal an affair. " - Lindy - 5/9/2008 3:55:53 AM
        
        As I understand it, you've missunderstood it. - podock - 5/9/2008 5:28:47 AM
        
        re: As I understand it, you've missunderstood it. - Lindy - 5/10/2008 12:56:22 AM
    - Aprhrodite, Ares and Eros - ER - 5/8/2008 7:06:06 PM
      - Sounds like an excuse to me - Lindy - 5/8/2008 8:44:53 PM
        
        Of course it is. - TB - 5/8/2008 11:31:39 PM
        
        re: Of course it is. - REB - 5/9/2008 1:53:30 PM
        
        Humans can choose their behaviors, - ER - 5/9/2008 1:49:25 AM
        
        Most men can resist the temptation to make a pass at their wife's sister. - ER - 5/9/2008 3:19:17 PM
        
        Heh. My ex propositioned my sister - Eri - 5/9/2008 11:47:16 PM
        
        re: Most men can resist the temptation to make a pass at their wife's sister. - Lindy - 5/9/2008 3:56:59 PM
        
        "Alimony, alimony, paying your bills..." - ER - 5/9/2008 5:39:15 PM
        
        "If your wife's sister really did come on to you..." - ER - 5/9/2008 5:04:56 PM
        
        Abandon reason, all ye who enter here. - Lindy - 5/9/2008 3:59:04 AM
        
        I believe it is a scientific fact more than a theory - FrankC - 5/8/2008 9:36:37 PM
        
        What *would* it take to make men happy? - Jody - 5/8/2008 9:58:57 PM
        
        No holds barred? - RobVG - 5/9/2008 3:04:28 AM
        
        some people are never happy - FrankC - 5/8/2008 10:54:49 PM
        
        That's a great story - Lindy - 5/9/2008 12:58:46 AM
  - The women seem to agree here... - Jody - 5/8/2008 11:34:45 AM
    - I do not disagree with you. But only wish to add... - alcaray - 5/8/2008 9:23:59 PM
      - Communication - REB - 5/9/2008 2:02:51 PM
      - re: I do not disagree with you. But only wish to add... - Lindy - 5/9/2008 1:08:02 AM
      - ~sigh~ - Jody - 5/8/2008 9:50:15 PM
        
        "because we are more willing to endure and sacrifice. " - ER - 5/9/2008 12:48:49 PM
        
        Humans can make/mate for an incredible symbiosis (n/t) - Jody - 5/9/2008 1:45:32 PM
        
        Agree completely. - alcaray - 5/8/2008 10:22:30 PM
- Lots of answers - FrankC - 5/8/2008 12:40:24 AM
  - re: Lots of answers - Lindy - 5/8/2008 1:37:22 AM
- re: A question about fidelity. - Lindy - 5/7/2008 2:15:28 PM
- One definition of fidelity: - ER - 5/7/2008 12:45:01 PM
  - "Solemn Commitment" - Lindy - 5/7/2008 2:27:27 PM
    - Just an academic, rhetorical, philosophic question... - ER - 5/7/2008 3:16:10 PM
      - Yes, but not equally (n/t) - FrankC - 5/8/2008 12:47:25 AM
      - re: Just an academic, rhetorical, philosophic question... - Lindy - 5/7/2008 8:19:44 PM
      - re: Just an academic, rhetorical, philosophic question... - Jody - 5/7/2008 6:35:12 PM
        
        "I had a feeling you could ask a hypothetical question of this nature" - ER - 5/7/2008 7:46:26 PM
        
        This is how it goes....... - Lindy - 5/7/2008 9:22:13 PM
        
        I really shouldn't have - RNE - 5/9/2008 4:56:10 PM
        
        LOL!...Too cute Lindy! - Jody - 5/8/2008 12:33:39 AM
        
        AAAAAAAAAARRRGGGHHH - ER - 5/7/2008 11:47:58 PM
        
        Not me. - TB - 5/7/2008 7:51:32 PM
      - "Triad", by David Crosby (as performed by Grace Slick) - ER - 5/7/2008 3:36:57 PM
        
        Triad - Lindy - 5/7/2008 8:33:12 PM
        
        The song was writtenby Dave Crosby - ER - 5/7/2008 11:44:52 PM
- "Other ways"? - RobVG - 5/7/2008 4:17:01 AM
  - Cyber sex (n/t) - Jody - 5/7/2008 7:30:27 PM
    - What kind? - RobVG - 5/7/2008 7:58:25 PM
      - Is there a difference? - Jody - 5/7/2008 8:36:21 PM
        
        I think so. - RobVG - 5/7/2008 10:00:22 PM
        
        Definitely a difference it would seem... - Jody - 5/8/2008 1:59:35 PM
        
        Notice how quiet the men are..... - Lindy - 5/8/2008 4:15:09 PM
        
        Yes Dear - Tony - 5/9/2008 1:23:15 PM
        
        Ah so, a Marital Arts master! (n/t) - ER - 5/9/2008 3:13:02 PM
        
        *chuckle*...Don't forget..."You're right, Dear." ;) (n/t) - Jody - 5/9/2008 1:42:38 PM
        
        One thing you learn over the years... - TB - 5/9/2008 1:47:26 AM
        
        But you will be called in for inspection. - podrock - 5/9/2008 2:52:22 AM
        
        Are you associating the male's silience on this thread as tacit support for infidelity? - podrock - 5/8/2008 10:47:10 PM
        
        Podrock of Gibraltar ;) (n/t) - Jody - 5/9/2008 10:58:38 AM
        
        re: Are you associating the male's silience on this thread as tacit support for infidelity? - Lindy - 5/9/2008 1:21:36 AM
        
        Guilt gives rewards?? - Lindy - 5/9/2008 4:12:49 AM
        
        Rear Window? - podrock - 5/9/2008 3:03:46 AM
        
        re: Rear Window? - Lindy - 5/9/2008 4:07:43 AM
        
        Perfect solution - Eri - 5/9/2008 1:44:19 AM
        
        re: Perfect solution - Lindy - 5/9/2008 4:08:39 AM
        
        Yep.... - Jody - 5/8/2008 6:21:18 PM
        
        "Right of Passage" - Lindy - 5/8/2008 8:49:48 PM
        
        Whaddaya mean, "generic"? - ER - 5/8/2008 5:17:46 PM
        
        re: Whaddaya mean, "generic"? - Lindy - 5/8/2008 9:04:39 PM
        
        Yeah, right. (n/t) - Jody - 5/8/2008 6:19:46 PM
        
        I agree RobVG...playin' with fire. (n/t) - Jody - 5/8/2008 12:34:59 AM
        
        People take great risks for two reasons. - ER - 5/9/2008 1:58:32 AM
    - Don't work. (n/t) - RoboCop - 5/7/2008 7:42:49 PM
      - How so? (n/t) - Jody - 5/7/2008 8:33:22 PM
        
        Sorry - ER - 5/7/2008 11:52:33 PM
  - No need for details... - TB - 5/7/2008 5:49:36 AM
    - Damn! - Jody - 5/8/2008 7:26:05 PM
      - And TB's a Republican. I may have to rethink my politics! - Eri - 5/8/2008 8:15:34 PM
    - Tom nailed it. (n/t) - SDG - 5/7/2008 3:12:12 PM

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