but very often they choose poorly, and if they do so, it is often because of evolutionary, or biological, or cultural forces which they may not even understand, or believe, are operating on them.
I submit that if you are aware of these subliminal influences you are better prepared to exercise your choices wisely. In other words, you act in your own best interests, not in accordance with some genetic imperative you haven't admitted to yourself exists, or which you even refuse to accept can affect you. A man who understands the reasons and causes of his emotional drives is much more likely to use his intellect to overide his physical urges to do something which in his circumstances might be totally inappropriate, like making a pass at his wife's sister.
And he who believes he never makes poor choices because he is too wise or virtuous to do so is setting himself up for a fall. The Greeks wrote countless plays about that particular quirk of human nature. They didn't know about evolution or psychology or cultural imperatives and biological drives, but they knew all about Destiny, the Fates and Hubris.
So they knew something was making them abandon their reason.
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Humans can choose their behaviors,
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- The Truth? You can't handle the truth!
- Why modern men avoid marriage
- re: A question about fidelity.
- Another one who is married.~sigh~ (n/t)
- And that's why.
- My dear TB, SDG, and REB,
- Yeah, they're just little angels.
- Some of us try to be.
- Yeah...just like you I am sure.
- re: Yeah...just like you I am sure.
- pointers
- Serious razor sharp words
- Funny you should say that.
- Interesting....
- What? I'm not sensitive enough? I'm devastated. (n/t)
- Yeah, they're just little angels.
- My dear TB, SDG, and REB,
- And that's why.
- Another one who is married.~sigh~ (n/t)
- If it's hurtful to the wife...
- Venus and Mars
- Actually...speaking for myself...
- Aprhrodite, Ares and Eros
- The women seem to agree here...
- Venus and Mars
- Lots of answers
- re: A question about fidelity.
- One definition of fidelity:
- "Other ways"?
- Cyber sex (n/t)
- What kind?
- Is there a difference?
- Don't work. (n/t)
- What kind?
- No need for details...
- Cyber sex (n/t)
