If the dictionary definition of marriage is the one agreed to, then it is not possible that it is an equal treatment issue
Every man and woman who get married, no matter who they are, get treated the same.
That is what marriage is.
The issue is whether a group can redefine marriage to suit their wishes.
That group has failed to win in the public square, so they are simply doing an end run around the law and the public will.
I reject that imposition of minority rule.
Most Americans do.
Ed