Sympathetic to putting yourself in someone elses shoes and deducing what they would do as a rational person who loves their children? Obviously not.
For you to sit around a preach at a the people having to make these choices is hilarious. I bet you are fat, white, soft and the closest you have ever come to defending yourself or your kids is honking your horn at the jerk trying to cut you off on the freeway. Bit given this is the Net, and you manifestly lack integrity, I'm sure you'll cook up some fictional response.
Yeti