There are people here with far worse "tones" than I have. Yet I notice that people mostly ignore them or dismiss them, and seemingly don't waste a second thought on them.
I make a habit of poking holes in a number of comfortable myths around here. That's irritating, to be sure, but most people can shrug that off. People are comfortable talking about ideas, even in hostile tones, as long as it's clear that the conversations are all on the same level with "favorite flavor of smoothie." Like cats making noises at each other in the yard, nothing really changes on either side.
It's when you bring information, numbers and real analysis to back things up that people get really pissed off. All of a sudden, you're implying that maybe, just maybe, their cherished Conventional Wisdom might actually be WRONG, not just a different viewpoint.
Some people seem to get enormous joy out of catching me out in a mistake or something I was wrong about. This tends to prove the point about what's REALLY got their knickers in a twist.
I have no problem with people pointing out my mistakes or something I didn't know. If it's done politely, and holds water, you might be surprised at the response.
Flame » in reply to re: That's great! Can I use that?
Nah. It's the message.
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- Ok, it's getting out of hand again
- Not a breather, just doing a lot of writing...
- re: Not a breather, just doing a lot of writing...
- In other words, black-and-white worldviews.
- re: Not a breather, just doing a lot of writing...
- Yipes.
- Not at all. Actually, everything is going very well for me.
- Gang of Four?
- connaissance des temps
- Damn! (n/t)
- Here.
- hear, here, Here and HERE.
- "O, wad some power the giftie gie us/To see oursels as others see us!"....Robert Burns
- Double, triple and quadruple DAMN!
- re: hear, here, Here and HERE.
- That's great! Can I use that?
- Thats great! get Irony much!?
- re: That's great! Can I use that?
- Nah. It's the message.
- Enema of the people
- re: Enema of the people
- The Magic Mirror
- Enema of the people
- Surrender ER
- Nah. It's the message.
- re: hear, here, Here and HERE.
- hear, here, Here and HERE.
- connaissance des temps
- Incidentally...
- Gang of Four?
- Not at all. Actually, everything is going very well for me.
- That may have been your best yet
- re: out of hand
- I noticed that, too.
- You can be a pussy if you want.
- "These people really do hate us"
- Kill their friends and relatives and they tend to do that.
- re: "These people really do hate us"
- These people...(GRAPHIC)
- I understand your anger, Lee...but...
- er Lee
- BTW
- I don't normally do this.
- A small correction...
- "These people really do hate us"
- re: Ok, it's getting out of hand again
- Not a breather, just doing a lot of writing...
