It must be nice to have an excuse.
I had a vigorous debate one time with someone who insisted that folks who said they couldn't do something, uniformly did not want to.
Lonely hearts, he insisted, had a psychological desire to remain lonely.
Underachievers really enjoyed their position.
He insisted this was true regardless of the issue.
I had disagreed with him at first but, over time, I have realized he was right on the mark.
You will remain surrounded by religious fanatics until you really want to leave and be surrounded by other folks.