You cannot tell someone they are wrong when they see with their own eyes!
I had a friend (massage therapist) who was disabled and unable to work for a long time and unable to draw disability (it takes a lot of time to get onto it) and meanwhile had to eat. She had to live with a daughter who barely could fend for herself. My friend had diabetes and was unable to get into a free clinic for a long time and did without meds. And then when she did get into a free clinic, she couldn't pay for the meds. The system freaking doesn't work!