This deserves to be read again.
So I'll quote back what I believe is the heart of your post:
I criticize my country because it is my country. I expect great things from it. I do not expect it to have its behavior governed by the worst in the world any more than I allowed my children to use the “everybody’s doing it†excuse. Were I Israeli or Iraqi or Afghan I would hope I would be protesting the Israeli, Iraqi or Afghan brutalities. I would be much more critical of dishonesty in my own family than I would in yours, take far stronger action, be much more disappointed.
Thanks for this, and for the rest of your eloquent statement of principled opposition to brutality.
